It must be hard to be Balloons the Clown.
For years, Balloons has been a fixture in my Borough.
He drives around in a silly red VW Beetle with a slogan prominently printed on the back:
“Honk if you like clowns.”
I’ll be honest: in all the years that our paths have crossed, I’ve never heard a single honk. That must be pretty depressing, if you’re a professional clown. But as one of my old teachers used to say:
“The meaning of our communication is the response we get.”
Here’s my question: Why would someone like Balloons even ask us to make some noise? My guess is that it has to do with the theme of last week’s blog post: reassurance. Perhaps this family entertainer is hoping for honks to confirm his presumed popularity.
Even though you probably don’t make a living walking around in huge shoes wearing a red nose, you and I, and Balloons, have something in common: we like to be reassured.
Our need for reassurance has to do with a deep human desire: the wish to be accepted. It’s this universal, comforting feeling that we matter, that we are safe, and that everything is going to be alright. It’s what lovers love, preachers preach, and what politicians promise. The person able to reassure us the most, gains our trust and gets our vote.
Clients are no different. They want to know that they are in good hands, and that their money is well spent. It is your job to convince them of that fact. As I suggested last week:
Selling is about reassuring. Before the sale, during the sale, and after the sale.
THE DO’S AND DON’TS
As the client is making up his mind, here are a few things that will make him feel confident that you’re the right person for the job. This is what you have to do: