Your best is yet to come, by Kristine Oller

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Your best is yet to come.

How you viscerally respond when you read that statement depends on the stories you’ve been telling yourself lately.

Have you been telling yourself that you’re too old?   That your window of opportunity is rapidly closing?  That you’ve already peaked?  That it’s too late?  That the odds are against you?  That you are trapped within your own life?  That you can’t learn any new tricks?

How you viscerally respond to that statement also depends on how you are currently defining that word – “best.”

What is the vision you have for what is possible for yourself?  Did that vision come from inside you, or has it been shaped by someone else’s orthodoxy, standards, traditions, or desires which you have accepted as your own?

If you are willing to change your stories and definitions, you can literally change your life. 

And that is true no matter how old you are.

But don’t take my word for it, meet a few of my idols – all of whom led early lives that provided little indication that they would make such significant shifts:

MS. FITZGERALD

British author Penelope Fitzgerald published her first book at age 59.

At age 63 she won the prestigious Booker Prize for her third book, Offshore (which I loved – I just finished it for my book club this month).  “In 20 years she published nine novels, three biographies and many essays and reviews.  She changed publishers four times when she began publishing and she never had an agent. By the end of her life she had been shortlisted for [the Booker prize] several more times, won a number of other British prizes… and became famous at 80 with the publication of The Blue Flower”which won the U.S. National Book Critics Circle Award. “Yet she always had a quiet reputation. She was a novelist with a passionate following of careful readers, not a big name.” She died in 2000 at age 83.

Sourced and quoted from Hermione Lee’s 2013 preface to Offshore.

MS. JOOSTEN

With no agent, no manager, no credits, no contacts, and no spouse, Kathryn Joosten packed up her truck and moved to Hollywood at the age of 56 (after dipping her toe into community theater at age 42). In 23 years, she amassed 118 film and television credits and won two Emmy Awards (for her role on Desperate Housewives). She received her third Emmy nomination posthumously after she died in 2012 at age 79.

Sourced from IMDB.

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Energy Management as a Spiritual Practice, by Kristine Oller

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Someone recently asked me…

…what my spiritual practice was.

I replied: “energy management.”

The asker was Annika Martins, creator of AnnikaTV, a program where she offers guidance about how to build a spiritual practice on YOUR terms.

We had a great discussion… and this week’s Golden Nugget is at minute seven (7:00) where I share a very small, very simple step you can take to start managing your energy in a thoughtful, conscious way.

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My Approach to Creating a Website, by Kristine Oller

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Let me start with some full disclosure…

…although I built this entire website (using a theme) and created most of the graphics, I would not call myself a web designer. (Aesthetics, in general, are not my strong suit, so I did solicit the help of my stylistically gifted consigliere during the final phase of this project.)

My particular skillset is probably most accurately described as a “web organizer.”

I am able to elevate a website that is cluttered and unfocused into one that reflects the owner’s true level of expertise, and I am able to simplify the multitude of decisions that this type of project requires. Then, when my clients have the means and inclination to do so, they can find individual experts (designers, writers, copywriters, branding/marketing consultants) who can make their site super fancy.

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